November of 2010, we moved in with my in laws to help with my mil's health. She had pulmonary embolisms in both lungs and was very lucky to be alive according to all of her doctors. Then the middle of this last January, my fil had a terrible allergic reaction (almost totally closed off his airway). While in the hospital, they found blood clots in both his lungs. He is just now able to get around a little better. Some day are better than others. Before we booked a WDW trip, they said that early June would be a good time for us to go. My DH works for the family appliance repair business, so it was important to make sure the fil was ok to do some work. TheDSs talk about going back all the time b/c we haven't been since October 2006. Two week ago my mil's mom (Gmil) was diagnosed with brain cancer. Gmil was in a car accident this last summer and they saw a mass in her lung on an x-ray, but she never had it checked out. Last night they did a full body CT scan. They thought the brain was the primary, but they found out they were wrong. She has cancer in both lungs and it's inoperable. They said she could go this week or it could be six months. Plus my poor Gmil's blood sugar keeps staying really high. It's not unusual for it to be over 200 - 300. My mil lost her father to cancer in 1989 before I knew them. I just feel so guilty about being happy and planning this secret WDW trip for our DSs, when my mil is in so much pain. I'm worried that we'll get there and she'll go then. I'm not worried about missing time at WDW, and having to come home early. I'm just worried about my DH not being there for my mil when her mom goes.