And she has a problem. She can't keep friends. She makes friends pretty easily (we became friends quickly), but as time passes, she inevitably finds some fatal flaw or some unforgivable sin over which to end the friendship. I have tried to explain to her that people *will* hurt you...it's human nature...but if one wishes to keep friends, one must learn to forgive. Otherwise it's only a matter of time before each and every friendship has been terminated and she's left alone...because people will catch on to her act and lose interest in her or never gain interest in the first place. And they'll move on to more forgiving and less critical friends.
But she doesn't grasp this concept. How else can I explain this to her? Anybody else have (or more likely used to have) arbitrary, unforgiving friends like this? Maybe you can share with me some insights.
But she doesn't grasp this concept. How else can I explain this to her? Anybody else have (or more likely used to have) arbitrary, unforgiving friends like this? Maybe you can share with me some insights.