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- Joined
- Jan 20, 2006
Congrats on your decision! I lost my job in September and decided to go back to work just part time. I work 3 days per week right now and have 2 kids. They go to daycare 2 days and my mom watches them the 3rd day. I was the bread winner in our family and carried all the benefits. DH's job + mine barely pays our bills and we don't have anything left over. I love the time I have with my kids, I love the fact that I can get stuff done around the house, i.e. not having to do laundry all weekend! I love being able to shop during the week when other people are working. I love sleeping in with my kiddos. I love the fact that when DD starts kindergarten, she'll get on and off the bus at our house.
I will admit though it is VERY hard for me to get through our budget and to stay on it. We're lucky to have savings because we knew this was happening. It's a very different lifestyle, we used to buy whatever we wanted, now we really have to think hard before buying something. I can't give up buying tickets to events though.....we are still going to Red Sox games, a Nascar race and 2 Jimmy Buffett concerts this year. That comes out of our savings where before it would have just been something we paid for from our paychecks.
Well at the end of my story......DH is looking for another job where he'll get paid more, but he's not all that marketable and has little education. Once in a while he'll say to me "you should go back to corporate America, you have the degree".......but I get around that quickly by reminding him how less stressed I am right now Well, that is until we get to money talks. We'll figure it out though, as will you. We figure in a few years from now our cars will be paid off and both kids will be in school so we'll have extra money then. I am deathly afraid of credit card debt so if we get to the point where we need to start using the card, I will go back to work full time.
PS to Holly, our daycare is incredible, I don't feel my kids' teachers are just people who take care of them, they are an important part of their lives and have been there for my kids since they were little. They are mothers too, and they are teachers, and they care very much for my children.
I will admit though it is VERY hard for me to get through our budget and to stay on it. We're lucky to have savings because we knew this was happening. It's a very different lifestyle, we used to buy whatever we wanted, now we really have to think hard before buying something. I can't give up buying tickets to events though.....we are still going to Red Sox games, a Nascar race and 2 Jimmy Buffett concerts this year. That comes out of our savings where before it would have just been something we paid for from our paychecks.
Well at the end of my story......DH is looking for another job where he'll get paid more, but he's not all that marketable and has little education. Once in a while he'll say to me "you should go back to corporate America, you have the degree".......but I get around that quickly by reminding him how less stressed I am right now Well, that is until we get to money talks. We'll figure it out though, as will you. We figure in a few years from now our cars will be paid off and both kids will be in school so we'll have extra money then. I am deathly afraid of credit card debt so if we get to the point where we need to start using the card, I will go back to work full time.
PS to Holly, our daycare is incredible, I don't feel my kids' teachers are just people who take care of them, they are an important part of their lives and have been there for my kids since they were little. They are mothers too, and they are teachers, and they care very much for my children.