Cyber hug going out to you.
Being a military spouse is not for the weak. As soon as you get into your routine without them, then they come back. Then you get into a routine with them, then they go. They may be ordered to stay away longer, usually just before they are supposed to come home and you have been counting down the time.
You are a strong woman, but get that ice cream on, brush your shoulders off, because you know you have what it takes to get through this again. But it does suck rotten eggs.
Love and appreciation going out to you and your dh.