Mkrop
I just cant go on demand
- Joined
- Feb 26, 2007
I don't think it will be different. This thread is a perfect example of the Mommy (and Daddy) Martyr Volunteers. Regardless of what others do, it will never be enough to rival the amount of time they put in.
I dont need anyone to put the time my DH or I put in....we need them to do what they agreed to by putting their child in this organziation. Or realize that if an organization is run solely by volunteers, than yeah you might need to step and do something.
Football program has a snack bar, it makes a ton of money that keeps costs down so that many kids can play. I know I dont want to pay any more than I already am for this program! Each family is to take ONE turn manning the snack bar with others. Three people are assigned a game. if you cant make your game than trade. But dont sit in the stands week after week and then when your week comes up, oops I am too busy. Or think it is cute to send your 8 year old to sell, while you sit in the stands bc you want to watch your kid.
Or if you are already at the game, ask what you can do to help. If the kids are little maybe it is keeping them on the bench. If you know the sport, maybe it is keeping the book or running a clock. Maybe it is offering to rake the field after the game instead of the coaches having to stay after. I get that someone may need to run to another game or to work etc, but you know what so does my DH after a game or practice. He might be trying to get to the other kids game or get home and finish his sales presentation on a work night and if another parent helped raked the field and took the trash to the dumpster he could get out of there earlier. I really dont think that is too much to ask
Or when things do get cancelled bc of lack of volunteers than dont send email to the principal complaining. Or if you dont like how something was done dont complain unless you are willing to step up. My friend ran our yearbook for our school years ago, and a parent complained that her child was not featured enough. She called the prinicipal to complain. The prinicipal asked the parent if she sent in the requested pictures for her child-NO, she asked the parent if they gave any time to the yearbook -NO. Then she said well gee Mrs Jones, than I guess I can let Mrs Smith know that you are stepping up right now to either run or assist her in compling the YB since you were so dissatisfied. The mom shut up than.
I get people are busy, so are we. And just like I am not to assume that I know what you have going on, dont assume that you know what I have going on. But if I agreed to or signed my child up for something, than I am going to help out in either a small way or a big way, depending on what I too personally have going on. And there are times when our help is small, the bare minimum, but it is alway there.