My DD is 10 yo in the 5th grade and will be 11 in May. Every year she gets questions and some rude comments about having two moms which came up again the other day. Her response an eye roll and youve known me since 2nd grade, really? She gets sick of it. Her BFF at school also has 2 moms. Well DD said E is insecure and trying to fit in because shes starting to tell everyone she had a dad but he died and thats why she has 2 moms now I feel bad for E. But Im just so proud that my DD is able at 11 to say whatever and not care what people think. It took me til I was 30. The funny thing is of the 3 lesbian led families at our school that Im aware of we are all pretty active so the kids know us. Koolaidmoms volunteers in DDs class twice a week and has since 3rd grade and all the kids clamor to be picked to work with her. Another mom was on the board and another mom is the cupcake/craft mom (her kids are in different grades then our kids).