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Mouseketeer
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- Apr 11, 2008
This is about my husband's daughter from a previous marriage. We wish there was some way to help them out of the situation they are in but we aren't financially able to do much and don't know if that would be best for them anyway. Briefly the facts:
My husband's daughter is 30 years old, married with two children (ages 1 & 2).
They have her husband's two children living with them also (approx. 9 & 12 years old).
The six of them recently moved in with her mother and stepfather in a tiny little old house.
They moved in with her mother because my stepdaughter's husband lost his job - not sure why but one story we heard was both their cars didn't work so he didn't have a way to a job. He also was in jail for a couple of weeks because he was arrested for driving a car with no insurance. We think he got a ticket for not having insurance, ignored it and then was stopped again and that's why he went to jail.
In this tiny house with 8 people living there only two people work - my stepdaughter's stepfather and stepdaughter's husband now works parttime.
We'd love to see them back on their own in an apartment or small house. We'd love for them to have a car that works. We'd love to see them be responsible and off food stamps. They ask us for money occasionally but not often. We do what we can to help. We just wish they were doing more to help themselves. They both smoke so they have money for cigarettes and my husband was over there today and said his daughter's husband was walking down the street towards home carrying a 12 pack of beer and a bag of ice.
I feel so sorry for the children. How would you help them help themselves? We really don't know what to do. Their values are so different than how we live.
My husband's daughter is 30 years old, married with two children (ages 1 & 2).
They have her husband's two children living with them also (approx. 9 & 12 years old).
The six of them recently moved in with her mother and stepfather in a tiny little old house.
They moved in with her mother because my stepdaughter's husband lost his job - not sure why but one story we heard was both their cars didn't work so he didn't have a way to a job. He also was in jail for a couple of weeks because he was arrested for driving a car with no insurance. We think he got a ticket for not having insurance, ignored it and then was stopped again and that's why he went to jail.
In this tiny house with 8 people living there only two people work - my stepdaughter's stepfather and stepdaughter's husband now works parttime.
We'd love to see them back on their own in an apartment or small house. We'd love for them to have a car that works. We'd love to see them be responsible and off food stamps. They ask us for money occasionally but not often. We do what we can to help. We just wish they were doing more to help themselves. They both smoke so they have money for cigarettes and my husband was over there today and said his daughter's husband was walking down the street towards home carrying a 12 pack of beer and a bag of ice.
I feel so sorry for the children. How would you help them help themselves? We really don't know what to do. Their values are so different than how we live.