The Mystery Machine
Sunrise at my house. :+)
- Joined
- Jan 4, 2001
Thank you so much to those that can see my hurt. I am not in the least bit bitter or angry with my Mom, I am just shocked and feel hurt that I was not included. My Dad died 2 weeks before her and his spouse got everything too. What am I??? I guess my parents didn't feel i was worthy enough to receive anything of theirs which is very hurtful to me. I am not looking for a hand out, I am very stable in my life which may be the reason, but it still makes me feel bad.
I guess I can't blame you for feeling hurt for being left out. I think that is a pretty normal emotion to have considering the circumstances. A lot of parents set aside something for their bio kids when they remarry however not all do.
What is done is done and start saving for college. I have a college freshman and it is crazy how much it costs.
My parents have no money, so no worries there unless you want to count us housing them and paying their bills when they are broke.
DH is another matter. Mom has no money and dad is remarried with 6 adopted kids.
So we are probably getting nothing either but I expect that. I will be shell shocked if we did.