So, I've been planning this great trip to Disney in June 2012. Last night my 14 year old boy decided to tell me he does not want to go to Disney World. Not only does he not want to go, but he is also under the very mistaken impression that if he doesn't go, that he should get compensated in cash for what we would have spent for him on the trip (not sure when he got to be so greedy).
So, how do you convince him that a Disney trip will be great fun. He's only been to the Magic Kingdom for one day and he thinks its for babies. We've tried to show him other parks have more attractions and that its an overall experience and not just the rides (he thinks if its not all thrill rides its not worth going).
Has anyone else dealt with this problem before? If he really truly does not want to go, do we force him to go or just let him stay home with his grandparents? I really hate for him to miss out on the trip because it will be building special family memories and it will put a damper on the vacation for the rest of us and I think he'd end up regretting staying home. However, at the same time, I don't want him to ruin it for the rest of us with his "teenage attitude" by making him go and I don't want him to be miserable if he really truly doesn't want to go.
I've been planning this trip for months and was going to buy plane tickets this weekend.
Teenagers...I just don't get them!!!
So, how do you convince him that a Disney trip will be great fun. He's only been to the Magic Kingdom for one day and he thinks its for babies. We've tried to show him other parks have more attractions and that its an overall experience and not just the rides (he thinks if its not all thrill rides its not worth going).
Has anyone else dealt with this problem before? If he really truly does not want to go, do we force him to go or just let him stay home with his grandparents? I really hate for him to miss out on the trip because it will be building special family memories and it will put a damper on the vacation for the rest of us and I think he'd end up regretting staying home. However, at the same time, I don't want him to ruin it for the rest of us with his "teenage attitude" by making him go and I don't want him to be miserable if he really truly doesn't want to go.
I've been planning this trip for months and was going to buy plane tickets this weekend.
Teenagers...I just don't get them!!!