I know what parks we are going to each day, maybe the first few attractions and then....
This is the closest to what we do. I know what parks we are going to do in the morning, although it is not set in stone, and the afternoon we park hop over to another park but which one depends on our mood at the time. At 180 days, I make 3-4 ADRs for the week and I keep in mind a couple of restaurants that I want to hit at some point during the trip, some of them off site.
As for the rides, we know which ones we need to hit before the lines get too long. We rarely are willing to wait more than 20 minutes for a ride and will either skip it for now or get a fastpass if they are available.
DD4 influences our touring greatly
if she wants to ride PoTC a dozen times, as long as there isnt a long line, we will ride it a dozen times (thankfully she hasnt asked to do that on Small World and although I like the ride, I dont think I could ride it 12 times in a row without falling asleep).
The only other thing that I do is watch the boards, Disney related articles, BLOGs, podcasts for information on anything that may affect one of our trips, whether it is new attractions, changes to attractions or if there is a review of something that peaks my interest that I want to try. I enjoy this part of planning.