Vacations in general but especially, Disney are a priority for ME. It seems that 2-2.5 years seem to be the longest I seem to be able to NOT go to Disney.
We fund all the necessities such as retirement and savings FIRST. No debt except for mortgage and car loan. Now the car loan can be paid in full from savings BUT it was a 0.9% loan so we just let it ride and pay a bit extra a month.
With a house, there is ALWAYS something to spend $$$$$$ on. We are FINALLY putting in a whole house generator this month after discussing, planning, thinking, budgeting, changing our minds on it, etc for the last 3 years.
We have to replace ONE of the 2 ac units we have but are thinking of pushing it off until next year.
We have some landscaping work (tie rails, steps) that need to be done which may be pushed until next year also due to budgeting.
We will tackle mulching, power washing, staining deck and fences ourselves in the next 18 months.
We COULD pay for EVERYTHING needed on the house IF we didn't go on vacation or if we raided and wiped out a lot of our savings.
Neither of us want to raid the savings all at once. And I know that DH personally would prefer to get the house stuff done and paid for before going on vacations. BUT my DH has always ENCOURAGED me to plan and book our vacations because he loves me and knows how important vacations are to me and my well being.
My next trip is in late August. We were originally going to drive and make it a longer trip (2 weeks +) to save some money. I would drive down by myself with the 2 kids, making frequent stops to visit friends and family. We would stay 2 nights with family in NC. DH would fly down later, spend a few days and then drive up with us.
But DD#2 is starting HS and we need to be back early from our trip for orientation. I can't leave earlier due to work commitments. So, DH is encouraging us to just fly. He is skipping the trip this time.
So, Disney and vacations are a high priority in my family. We don't do it super budget style anymore but WOULD if that is the only way to afford it. But not to the extent of going into debt or "cheating" the neccessities.