Our cost has gone up considerably, but a lot of that is a result of our growing family and income and not Disney's price increases. Our first family trip was very affordable - 2 adults, 2 infants, All Star Sports with Free Dining for 7 days. Our next trip will be 10 days at a Grand Floridian one-bedroom villa with two adults, two kids, and two infants. The cost will continue to increase in a few years when we will need a two-bedroom villa and will be paying for 4 Disney adults and 2 Disney kids.
We have the money to spend at Disney, but we do look at the value still. This year, we are splurging for a date night at V&As, but we cut park hoppers for the first time. It just isn't worth it to pay something like $250 to be able to go to a different park in the afternoon. We are also going to do fewer buffet or table service breakfasts. Again, I just can't justify $200 for a breakfast when we can just eat in the room. We are also going to make the little ones share meals and cut back on pop. If everyone got a drink with dinner, it could end up being $20 for a table of six with tip. That is too much considering we can just get a two-liter for $2 back in our rooms before or after (hubby disagrees with me on this one because he wants his Coke with dinner). We may skip the Halloween party this year - it depends on the price. Our daughter is still doing BBB, but I downgraded the package and got an Elsa dress for $27 on sale at the
Disney store instead of buying the $200 package. As our kids get older, we plan to cut down on buffets and share more meals.
We are lucky in that we have disposable income for vacations and do not have a strict budget. The issue is that the more we spend on Disney, the better deals other places look like! On our first vacation, we got airline points through a credit card and paid something like $2,500. There was no way we could go somewhere else that nice for this price. With a big family, we figured places like Europe or South America were out of the question. As our tastes and Disney prices have increased, it is no longer a cheap vacation. Once we are paying for our airfare and all the kids, I think the price would be roughly $6K for hotel (400 DVC points x $15pp if we sell), $2,500 in tickets, $2,500 in food, and $2,000 in airfare. $13,000 is a lot of money! As they continue to take away the magic and raise prices, now I am thinking we should skip Disney occasionally. If I had $13,000 to spend on another trip, we could take the kids to Costa Rica. If I could ever convince the family to skip two years of Disney, we could take an amazing trip to Europe. So, it isn't that Disney will price me out, it's more that they will price me into other things. If they convince me that I need to spend $10K+ to have the Disney vacation I want, maybe I just want a Hawaii vacation instead.