I'm considering pulling my boys out of PS--they're in 5th and 6th grades. I've been thinking about it for a year now and have almost convinced myself that I
can do it, lol. I'm in PA, and have researched the laws, though I didn't realize they were 'tough' until I read this thread, lol. I'm okay with what is required. I can do that part of it...it's the 'rest' I'm worried about. It's overwhelming and more than a bit scary! (exciting, too, though)
It's nice to know that there are so many of you here to support each other...and me if/when I need it!
My boys just aren't thriving in PS and haven't been for quite some time. My younger DS is a smart boy, but almost failing 5th grade. He has attention problems and the teachers revoke his priviledges for rule infractions...he has no recess for the rest of the year and they are now taking away field trips and programs, fun day, etc. That only makes things worse for him. He's very down on school and I'm having a tough time getting him motivated to do anything at all. He thinks he's stupid and can't do it, but that's not true. I think he just has too many distractions at school and not enough time studying things that interest him. (NCLB has made sure of that.) I also don't think he recieves enough encouragement at school...can you believe one teacher actually split the class into two groups--the smart group and the stupid group!? DS was in the stupid group...isn't that nice? (Parents complained, of course, and the teacher was supposedly reprimanded, but still...it shouldn't have happened in the first place.) My older DS is shy, though a good student. He's in junior high this year and constantly asking to stay home from school, complaining of stomachaches, headaches, etc. He has been bringing home untouched lunchboxes, and finally admitted to me that he isn't eating anymore in school because other kids want to take his food. I'm afraid that kids are teasing him, though he says they aren't, because lately he's been upset often, sometimes even crying, not wanting to go to school, etc. He's showing a lot of interest now in science, history and art, and I'd like him to be able to focus more on those subjects.
My boys do participate in non-PS-sponsored sports and other activities outside of school. There are plenty of other children for them to play with. I think I'd also like to get them into some community service activities that we can all do together as a family.