I also have very little tolerance for bathroom breaks
.My husband says I should attach a power bar and an adult diaper to my itinerary and hand it out to each extended family member. He is joking-I think.
Ok, that made me seriously LOL! Love it!
I have to agree though, I do not look forward to a BIG family trip. The last 2 times we have gone, my dad has asked why we didn't invite them. I just laughed it off like I thought he was joking. Now, he wants to seriously plan a big trip, and I am NOT looking forward to it. We get along great at home, but I don't think we would at Disney. He wants to take his wife, and my 2 adult siblings and their SO. Which would mean I would be the only one with a child...a preschooler at that. I like to plan, plan, plan, plan...our last family trip, they liked to wander, wander, wander! LOL
Also, I don't want to come off as snobish, because I am a single mom and I don't have big bucks by ANY means. I work hard to save up money for a yearly trip by doing overtime at work. And we stay in a value resort, so we can still get the magical benefits of being on property...ME, Dining plan, and disney transportation, but at a cheaper price. I figure it's one week a year, and I'm gonna splurge on my kid....
My one side of the family is NOT like that. Our last trip years ago, we stayed drove straight thru (over 18 hours), stayed offsite, we ate a big breakfast at the free hotel buffet, we'd share a few slices of pizza and a LARGE sode no ice for lunch, and then my parents would stop at McDonald's on the way back to the hotel at the end of the day. If we wanted souvenirs, we'd better of brought our own money! Now I'm not saying I hated my vacation with them, but everyone was so concerned with prices of everything, that it took away some of the magic... I know they would flip if they saw the price of Cinderella's breakfast and the Pirate's league. They couldn't believe I bought him a $10 balloon our last trip. So I'm dreading that trip!
And I will say I have taken my 2 teen siblings from the other side of the family before, and that went fine. They followed the schedule with us in the morning, and then they did their own thing at night. We set some ground rules before going, and I'd go back with that side of the family again in a heart beat.
So I think it just depends on your family, and you know your family best.