October will be my family's third trip to WDW and I still haven't mastered spending time at the resorts. The kids love the parks, but also really enjoy time at the resort too- so...
How do you plan for resort time? (we are going for 7 nights arriving on the Saturday of Columbus Day weekend)
Do you come back during lunch break each day? (In the past we have spent all day at the parks- leaving very little resort time)
Do you spend your arrival day at the parks or resort/dtd? (we have an early arriving two hour flight- 10am- kids are used to waking up early, in past have checked in and gone straight to MK to soak it in- now wondering if we should just take arrival day off)
I'm worried that if we plan a whole down day in the middle of the trip that it'll rain the whole day. Guess I just need to be flexible with plans.
So much to fit in! We need a month at Disney I think.
This is what we do, seems to work fairly well. Just remember I haven't read through the other posts so sorry if I repeat something that's already been menitoned. Also keep in mind I'm not looking at any crowd calendars or recommended days to visit each park, I'm just giving you an example of how we plan our days for 7 days:
Day 1 (arrival day): We usually arrive mid to late afternoon, so our room is ready. We check in, get settled, then head out for dinner at DTD. After dinner we walk around DTD, enjoy the sights, maybe grab dessert and then head back to our resort.
Days 2 & 3: Park Days. Usually MK is our first full day.
Day 4: Non-Park day. We spend most of the day at our resort then head to the Boardwalk area or DTD for dinner. You could also have dinner at one of the parks and stay for fireworks or night time parade.
Days 5 & 6 are also full park days.
After the 6th day you've had 1 full day at each park plus one non-park day. If you want, on the 7th day you could return to a favorite park (we usually end up doing 2 days at MK since our kids are little. Before kids, we did 2 days at Epcot)
Depending on your departure time, the 7th day could also be a partial park day or a water park day. Lately we've been to AK when they close at 6pm or so, so since you still have quite a bit of time left in the day, you could also go to DTD or the Boardwalk area or just back to your resort to enjoy the evening (including swimming most of the year) there. We have never gone back to our resort for meals or mid day breaks. Our kids nap in their strollers and now hardly nap at all, so we stay in the parks and maybe just find a quiet show or have a quick snack if they need a break. It usually works.
If we are dining at a resort, it's usually for breakfast (most resort restaurants open well ahead of park opening, so you can try and snag an early ADR and still make rope drop). We try to keep meals within the parks we are visiting that day as we don't do park hoppers.
We don't like to spend our arrival or departure days at parks, but that's just our preference. I know many people like to get the magic started right away and keep it going as long as possible but for now, we choose not to tour this way. If you can get away with adding an 8th day, you can plan for 1 extra day to do whatever you feel like THAT DAY! We did that once it was great. Also happened to be the one trip our DD got sick on, so we lost 2 full park days
Luckily, I had one resort day and one "do whatever we want day" already in the plans, so we really didn't lose much park time. Had to rearrange a few ADRs, but the POR staff was very helpful in getting them rescheduled for us.
Don't sweat it out too much. You will have a great day no matter where you spend it and just try to "go with the flow" as far as your resort day goes. It will work out just fine.