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DDP once, it did not suit our eating styles at all, and didn't cover the places we wanted to eat, but we wanted to "give it a try" on a short 3 day trip. We don't eat a lot of desserts, some trips we won't eat any or just at V&A. We would NEVER eat dessert at 2 meals in 1 day, its just too much.
I've been to WDW probably 25+ times in the last 10 years and the restaurants we try to get (we can't plan 180 days out due to work) are V&A (only get it about half time and we aren't picky about which type of table we get) but we always get Marrakesh and BlueZoo, we also enjoy California Grill (for late fireworks, but again hard to get on shorter notice), Kimono's, Il Muliano and I'm hoping that Monsiuer Paul will live up to the old Bistro. We screw around with openings on our phone and sometimes we get lucky, and sometimes we try something we haven't in a while. We make it work.
That's where we eat, which are all dinners - as for how... For breakfast we usually grab a banana, an espresso and my DH grabs an additional carb at the cafe - almost always in the Swan or Dolphin
We park hop to Epcot for a "snack/drink around the world" for lunch - fish and chips, a cheese plate in france, something in the Tutto Gusto wine bar, La Cava; generally, we make the rounds over the course of several lunches. We also always hit Tangerine Cafe. Sometimes we try to grab a Plaza reservation for MK days, but again, sometimes we can't get one and its no big deal - just hop to Epcot. We're not huge eaters, so this works really well for us and gives us several nice dinners, but we're not tied to much during the day. I can't tell you the number of times we've eaten lunch at the Cabana Bar or by the Grotto pool at Swolphin; their casear salad is one of the best on property. Anyhow, we go with the flow and hit our faves, if I want 2 apps and 3 cocktails for dinner, I have it, life is good
One more word on how we eat - DH gets room service wings and beer on probably every trip we go on ever - including many overseas trips. He likes the ones at the Dolphin best of the places he's stayed at in WDW, including CR, YC, GF and the Swan, not sure how they are different than the Swan wings, but whatever. And, the man stays hipster skinny even with all those wings.