I have been married 17 years and have just been told some shocking news and am at a loss as to how to handle it. My husband has had some real anger issues the past month or so and last week told me it was him not me. After a little pushing he finally told me, him and an old girlfriend had been talking the past month because they had unfinished business. What in the world could it be? Well I am told 19 years ago he got her pregnant and she had and abortion and that they both felt was the only thing to do at the time. Now my husband and I started dating when I was 15 so this was durning the time we were not together. I did know about this girlfriend but not the situation. They never had closure and they both fell they needed it. So for a month they went behind my back talking/texting/flurting and then he drops this on me. I am so lost and confused and don't feel this is something I can talk to with anyone. By the way they are still talking "as friends". What do I do?