Heading to WDW March 2009, bringing 2 first timers with us! Our daughter in law, and our 6 yr old grandson will be experiencing Disney for the first time and we want to make it special while avoiding 6 yr old meltdown. We are staying offsite to have more room (3 bed/3bath suite) so will appreciate any suggestions on your fav places including a character meal. I think we dont want to do breakfast, and it sounds like some of the lunches I was considering are being discontinued... I know you all have been to Disney MANY more times than us, so please help!