Mickey'snewestfan
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- Apr 26, 2005
My 15 year old son has fallen into the pattern of doing his work, and not turning it in. This pattern has me completely baffled. Not doing it would, at least, make some sense, but I'm just scratching my head on this. Why would you spend hours on a paper and then not give it to anyone.
Now, I'm sure that at this point half of you are shaking your heads and thinking that my kid is lying, and not doing the work. That's what I thought, and even accused him of, but as far as I can tell it's not true. Yesterday was a good example, he had a paper marked as not submitted in English. I asked him about it about 4 times and he said "I turned it in, I'm not sure why it's not graded.", so finally I emailed his teacher who said she had never seen it. When I told him that he opened his computer, pulled it up, and emailed it in. Clearly, it had been done weeks before. Even with missing points for being late, he got a B, so I assume it would have been an A, thus not an issue of him being ashamed of poor work.
This happens all the time. Half of his papers and assignments have points off for being late, and his homework grades are all around 50 - 60%, and yet I see him doing the assignments.
When I emailed with his English teacher, she told me that the other day he came back to her room at lunch for extra time on a test (the school gives everyone unlimited time if they want it), finished the test, picked it up, and walked out of the room. She said she had to chase him down in math class to get it from him, and that later the math teacher told her "yep, he's done that to me too."
Has anyone experienced this? Ideas on how to help him?
Now, I'm sure that at this point half of you are shaking your heads and thinking that my kid is lying, and not doing the work. That's what I thought, and even accused him of, but as far as I can tell it's not true. Yesterday was a good example, he had a paper marked as not submitted in English. I asked him about it about 4 times and he said "I turned it in, I'm not sure why it's not graded.", so finally I emailed his teacher who said she had never seen it. When I told him that he opened his computer, pulled it up, and emailed it in. Clearly, it had been done weeks before. Even with missing points for being late, he got a B, so I assume it would have been an A, thus not an issue of him being ashamed of poor work.
This happens all the time. Half of his papers and assignments have points off for being late, and his homework grades are all around 50 - 60%, and yet I see him doing the assignments.
When I emailed with his English teacher, she told me that the other day he came back to her room at lunch for extra time on a test (the school gives everyone unlimited time if they want it), finished the test, picked it up, and walked out of the room. She said she had to chase him down in math class to get it from him, and that later the math teacher told her "yep, he's done that to me too."
Has anyone experienced this? Ideas on how to help him?