a good friend is trying to horn in on a family trip? We are planning our first WDW trip with our DD. We've been to WDW and DL before, and we love the magic! My daughter loves all things Disney (except the princesses...go figure) and her favorite thing is Minnie Mouse. She will be 3.5 when we go in September. After much deliberation, we decided to do a 7-night Land & Sea package, staying at the Polynesian for 4 nights, and doing a 3-night verandah stateroom cruise. We are SO excited, are planning our ADRs, and I'm already stocking up on Disney merchandise for "Mickey" to surprise my daughter with in our hotel room and stateroom. I am SO excited, even though it's 7 months away! The problem? My dear friend (who I really do love dearly) asked when we were going and is trying to figure out how to book the same package so that she can go, too. I love my friend, but I know that the best way to end a friendship and ruin a great trip will be for her to come along. She has a daughter who is 6 months younger than my daughter, but she also has a set of 1yo twins. I just think this will be a disaster. I want this to be a family trip for myself, my DH, and my DD. My friend has already told me that we can "dump" all of the kids in the childcare facility on the cruise so she and I can enjoy spa days with no kids. That is NOT the purpose of my vacation. I want to spend time with my DD, and so does my DH. Sorry this is so long. What should I do??? If I tell her that I don't want her to go, she will get her feelings hurt and it could hurt the friendship. Thanks for any advice!