My DIS friends always have great ideas for these situations so I'm counting on you all to help me decide how to handle this one.
My younger DD had a special easter egg she won at a party. I don't know why she has been saving it, but she has been waiting for "just the right time" to eat it and the time has never arrived. Whatever, it's hers to eat or save.
Tonight I got my older DD's lunch box out to pack for school tomorrow and found the wrapper for the special egg. She had asked several times if she could have it (with the appropriate whining about it not being fair that she didn't get one) and was told "NO" in no uncertain terms by both me and her sister. I can only assume she snuck it off to camp two weeks ago, which was the last time she used her lunchbox.
I'm a firm believer that the punishment should fit the crime, but I don't know what's appropriate this time. There is no way to replace the egg for several months and even then the cost would be insignificant to the offender. She doesn't have anything particularly special that I could take away except her cell phone which I need her to have so I can check in after school. I could ground her, but she only goes to soccer practice and is invited to a friends party on Saturday, but it's not really fair to punish the team or her friend for her misdeed.
Any ideas?????
My younger DD had a special easter egg she won at a party. I don't know why she has been saving it, but she has been waiting for "just the right time" to eat it and the time has never arrived. Whatever, it's hers to eat or save.
Tonight I got my older DD's lunch box out to pack for school tomorrow and found the wrapper for the special egg. She had asked several times if she could have it (with the appropriate whining about it not being fair that she didn't get one) and was told "NO" in no uncertain terms by both me and her sister. I can only assume she snuck it off to camp two weeks ago, which was the last time she used her lunchbox.
I'm a firm believer that the punishment should fit the crime, but I don't know what's appropriate this time. There is no way to replace the egg for several months and even then the cost would be insignificant to the offender. She doesn't have anything particularly special that I could take away except her cell phone which I need her to have so I can check in after school. I could ground her, but she only goes to soccer practice and is invited to a friends party on Saturday, but it's not really fair to punish the team or her friend for her misdeed.
Any ideas?????