Ginny Favers
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Dec 30, 2011
All right... I don't know what to do. I just heard about this situation literally 10 minutes ago and I am still trying to process.
DD5 is in summer camp. She really loves it there. But yesterday she told me that while she was at the public pool with the camp, she went into the bathroom there alone.
I know they're not supposed to let children her age do that, so I told her that from now on, she needed to get a counselor before she went in, and that I would tell the director that they needed to reinforce this rule with the counselors. DD said, "What's the big deal? I wasn't kidnapped." And then it eventually turned into the discussion we've had several times, where I reminded her about her privates and that no one should touch them.
Then, she proceeds to tell me that at the playground the day before, two boys at camp were touching her privates and she tried to get away but they wouldn't leave her alone and kept doing it. And that she told a teacher but nothing happened. I was floored. She gave me the names of the boys but did not know the name of the teacher who she told. I asked her to show me exactly where they touched her, and she pointed to the area between her legs.
Well, I ran in there and spoke to the woman at the front desk. She gave me the number and email of the director and now I have a meeting with them. But I'm just so floored.... still processing.... I feel like I need to take her out of there.
What would you do?
DD5 is in summer camp. She really loves it there. But yesterday she told me that while she was at the public pool with the camp, she went into the bathroom there alone.
I know they're not supposed to let children her age do that, so I told her that from now on, she needed to get a counselor before she went in, and that I would tell the director that they needed to reinforce this rule with the counselors. DD said, "What's the big deal? I wasn't kidnapped." And then it eventually turned into the discussion we've had several times, where I reminded her about her privates and that no one should touch them.
Then, she proceeds to tell me that at the playground the day before, two boys at camp were touching her privates and she tried to get away but they wouldn't leave her alone and kept doing it. And that she told a teacher but nothing happened. I was floored. She gave me the names of the boys but did not know the name of the teacher who she told. I asked her to show me exactly where they touched her, and she pointed to the area between her legs.
Well, I ran in there and spoke to the woman at the front desk. She gave me the number and email of the director and now I have a meeting with them. But I'm just so floored.... still processing.... I feel like I need to take her out of there.
What would you do?