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Loosing Boo Boo
- Joined
- Sep 20, 2009
My DH found out a few years ago he has a daughter. We were floored. But the girl is in her late 20's. We have no idea if he is on the birth certificate or not. But the way we found out was the young lady actually went to DH's dads house. We live out of state and she lives close to them. I really don't know their reaction.
The girl says she doesn't want anything, just wants to know who her dad was. I find it heart breaking this woman never told him. As it really makes it difficult to start a relationship.
But in your case I find it odd that the mother would drop him off at the doorstep and leave him there. But yes, DNA is the first step. Attorney help is a must since he is under 18. And what does the mom want? Why is she just now telling you. Please stand by your husband. He must have many thoughts running through his mind.
The girl says she doesn't want anything, just wants to know who her dad was. I find it heart breaking this woman never told him. As it really makes it difficult to start a relationship.
But in your case I find it odd that the mother would drop him off at the doorstep and leave him there. But yes, DNA is the first step. Attorney help is a must since he is under 18. And what does the mom want? Why is she just now telling you. Please stand by your husband. He must have many thoughts running through his mind.