I have done HDDR, Medieval Times, Pirates Dinner Adventure and Dixie Stampede (in Myrtle Beach). I would say it all depends on what your kids are into. If your kids like action and to be entertained, I would say don't do HDDR. JMO The other three I mentioned were all very good shows with lots of action. My DS was 9 when I took him to HDDR and he liked it, but probably wouldn't have at 3.