We have been blessed with two wonderful little girls and for almost 3 years now I have thought our family was complete, but now I am starting to get a baby bug. The girls are 10.5 months apart and the first two years was very rough as DH travels alot for work and we do not really have alot of family nearby to help. The older will be four in July and the younger will be 3 in May.
Due to their closeness in age they have become wonderful friends and playmates which is why I think I now want a third. I sort of feel like I missed out on some of the things I would have done if I would have had the girls further apart in age. Part of me is feeling selfish and thinking about the things I would be temporarily giving up if we did have a third...
How does someone make this decision...I keep talking myself into reasons to have a third and then reasons I am not sure to have a third.
DH could go either way, he will not come right out and say he wants another, but he does not say he does not want another either.
Any thoughts would be appreciated.
Due to their closeness in age they have become wonderful friends and playmates which is why I think I now want a third. I sort of feel like I missed out on some of the things I would have done if I would have had the girls further apart in age. Part of me is feeling selfish and thinking about the things I would be temporarily giving up if we did have a third...
How does someone make this decision...I keep talking myself into reasons to have a third and then reasons I am not sure to have a third.
DH could go either way, he will not come right out and say he wants another, but he does not say he does not want another either.
Any thoughts would be appreciated.