Oh my gosh, I can't believe the timing of this post. First of all my heart and prayers go out to you and everyone else at their various stages of grief. Your words "every once in a while grief bites you on the bottom" are so precise.
On Nov 15, we will mark the 5th anniversary of my Dad's death. I was indeed Daddy's girl, his only daughter and living 5 minutes away from him and my mom, meant lots of fun time together, especially as dad retired at 60 and passed away at 66. Dad was my bud. We could have coffee together, run an errand and as I had the only 2 grandchildren, it was never "Dad, are you coming to the (insert any sport) game today", it was always, "I'll pick you up at". I last saw my dad the day before his passing, dropping him off after my youngest son's hockey game. I'm glad that my last memory of him is the big wave, just before he entered the house. The next day he had a massive heart attack and died instantly in a parking lot. I too would like to post a part of my eulogy. Keep in mind that my dad was a hard working man and would never have thought anything special about himself. The big church was filled the day of his funeral and his pallbearers were 2 of his friends, 2 friends of my self and my husband and 2 friends of my oldest son. He could relate to people of all ages, and people of all ages loved my dad.........
........."I think that we all wonder how we will be remembered, what did we do on this earth and what changes did we make while we were here. I was lucky enough to talk to Dad or see him every day. Aside from being the poster boy for "live for today", dad will be remembered as a great friend, loving every cup of coffee and story that he shared with friends. As a husband, my mom was in great loving hands, none of this was more evident than in the last few years as her eyesight changed so rapidly. As a father, he was the best. There was nothing that Dad wouldn't do for Darrell or I and he loved Mike and Barb as if they were his own. Dad's performance as a husband, friend and father was only outshone by his job as a one of a kind grandfather"........
God bless you all and thank you for starting this thread, I feel selfish for posting my loss when yours is so new, but I thank you for allowing me to post as it has been very therapeutic.
I think that I'm going to go put the final touches on a trip that my mom wants me to take with her to WDW in January.