I was in the 1989 Loma Prieta quake in San Francisco. Killed some 63 people. It was pretty bad, and we didn't work for almost a week. Took about 7-8 weeks for traffic to get back to somewhat normal (the Bay Bridge was down), and years for things to really get fixed. Until the Bay Bridge was repaired, traffic was HORRENDOUS, and that's saying something, because traffic is normally pretty bad in that area. I took ferry transportation for that time period, and got on a ferry that left my home community at 5:30 in the morning. The others were too full to get on, and you couldn't find anyplace to park to catch the ferry if you took a later one.
My personal residence was fine, but there were quite a large number completely destroyed.
The one thing I learned from that experience is that the media focuses on the destruction, and not the things that are still (relatively) fine. While 63 people died, about 5.8 million survived. Not to minimize the deaths, because they were awful.
The other truly fortunate thing is that so few people were on the freeway that collapsed because people had left work early to get home for the World Series (San Francisco and Oakland were playing that year....and all Bay Area series). Had it been a "normal" afternoon at 5:07, that stretch of freeway would have been bumper to bumper across 3-4 lanes of traffic....would have been many, many more deaths. I personally had been on that stretch of freeway many times and sat in that traffic. I, along with the media, were certain hundreds would be dead there alone. Quirk of fate that it wasn't the case.