fairytalehaven
Mom of 2 furry girls ~~~Yes, I have dreams, hopes,
- Joined
- Jun 15, 2005
Where your head is about ready to explode? And if you try to fix the problem your afraid you may make it worse? 
Waiting on our loan closing. The company never called us to set up a date. Today I get a call from the sellers secretary stating our closing will either be MONDAY OR TUESDAY. I told her, isn't the title company suppose to call us? She said that they called a real estate company, that we aren't even dealing with then contacted the seller. I continued to tell her that those days wouldn't work because husband had to work. The title company should have called us last week and set up an appointment with US. Not the other way around. This is what these people do for a living, they can work around their schedule. My husband can't especially since we are trying to save up money to build this house.
It's just really irratating to me because people don't do their job and then expect you to rush around to meet their needs.
Through this whole process NO ONE had to wait on us. We always got things done in the time we were suppose to. But everyone is always calling us like we are holding things up. This process is really testing my nerves. And that make me want to stop this whole thing. AAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Waiting on our loan closing. The company never called us to set up a date. Today I get a call from the sellers secretary stating our closing will either be MONDAY OR TUESDAY. I told her, isn't the title company suppose to call us? She said that they called a real estate company, that we aren't even dealing with then contacted the seller. I continued to tell her that those days wouldn't work because husband had to work. The title company should have called us last week and set up an appointment with US. Not the other way around. This is what these people do for a living, they can work around their schedule. My husband can't especially since we are trying to save up money to build this house.
It's just really irratating to me because people don't do their job and then expect you to rush around to meet their needs.
Through this whole process NO ONE had to wait on us. We always got things done in the time we were suppose to. But everyone is always calling us like we are holding things up. This process is really testing my nerves. And that make me want to stop this whole thing. AAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
You know, that is one of the most stressful thing I've ever done in my life, and I've done it twice. Things never go smoothly. It's just the nature of the beast. I'm sorry to hear that you've hit a bump, but it will all work out in the end, and you'll have your house. Just try to keep a good perspective on things, and try to keep your eye on the prize. Both times we built, we saw our neighbors filing for divorce shortly after they finished thier new homes. Just too much stress for some to manage. If you're only having "one" of those days, count yourself amongst the fortunate. Take a deep breath and keep moving forward. 
