ZeroMyHero
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- Jan 20, 2008
I apologize in advance because this is so long. Sorry!
My DD10 has ADHD and ODD and takes medication for the ADHD. It works well for her and has improved her focus and really helps her control her anger and outbursts. This will be our first trip to WDW with her on medication. I think it will be better than past trips because she really understands her situation well now and we have all made many changes to help her succeed.
The rule has always been that her handheld devices (iPod and Nintendo 3DS) had to stay behind in the room when we visited the parks. There was enough to see in line to keep her distracted and we were able to use FP to our advantage to cut down on waiting. Now that she is older (she will be 11 when we travel), I am considering allowing her to bring her devices into the parks. She has more maturity and self control now and it is easier to talk her down during an angry episode, and these episodes are far less frequent than they used to be thanks to therapy and medication. Also, because the standby lines for all attractions seem to be longer than they were before the implementation of FP+, I am concerned that she will get bored/less stimulated faster now while waiting in line, so using a device for a bit might help to pass the time and keep her mood from nosediving.
However, I have misgivings because DD10 is *obsessed* with video games and videos of people talking about and playing video games. They dominate every conversation she has with other people, which is okay, but I worry she will want to play them constantly while we stand in line for an attraction or sit and wait for the start of a show. If she plays them for too long, she becomes irrationally angry and defiant when she is asked to stop. This anger can last for hours and has occasionally made touring the parks difficult because she shuts down and doesn't want to do anything but be angry.
DH thinks it would be okay to let her bring her handhelds into the parks this time. She would carry them in her own bag and be responsible for them, and I trust his judgement on this because he has ADHD, too, so he really understands how she feels. But, he also tends to spend a lot of time playing on his phone even when we aren't standing in line at WDW and I don't want to lose two family members to devices, especially on vacation. We have never used a GAC and will not get a DAS as I don't think it is really necessary for us. Should I let her bring the devices in or is this a slippery slope I should avoid? We have two months before our trip and I'd like to prepare DD10 as much as possible. She doesn't react well to surprises or changes in routine if we don't discuss them beforehand. Any advice from you, especially if you've been in my place, would be really helpful. Thank you!
My DD10 has ADHD and ODD and takes medication for the ADHD. It works well for her and has improved her focus and really helps her control her anger and outbursts. This will be our first trip to WDW with her on medication. I think it will be better than past trips because she really understands her situation well now and we have all made many changes to help her succeed.
The rule has always been that her handheld devices (iPod and Nintendo 3DS) had to stay behind in the room when we visited the parks. There was enough to see in line to keep her distracted and we were able to use FP to our advantage to cut down on waiting. Now that she is older (she will be 11 when we travel), I am considering allowing her to bring her devices into the parks. She has more maturity and self control now and it is easier to talk her down during an angry episode, and these episodes are far less frequent than they used to be thanks to therapy and medication. Also, because the standby lines for all attractions seem to be longer than they were before the implementation of FP+, I am concerned that she will get bored/less stimulated faster now while waiting in line, so using a device for a bit might help to pass the time and keep her mood from nosediving.
However, I have misgivings because DD10 is *obsessed* with video games and videos of people talking about and playing video games. They dominate every conversation she has with other people, which is okay, but I worry she will want to play them constantly while we stand in line for an attraction or sit and wait for the start of a show. If she plays them for too long, she becomes irrationally angry and defiant when she is asked to stop. This anger can last for hours and has occasionally made touring the parks difficult because she shuts down and doesn't want to do anything but be angry.
DH thinks it would be okay to let her bring her handhelds into the parks this time. She would carry them in her own bag and be responsible for them, and I trust his judgement on this because he has ADHD, too, so he really understands how she feels. But, he also tends to spend a lot of time playing on his phone even when we aren't standing in line at WDW and I don't want to lose two family members to devices, especially on vacation. We have never used a GAC and will not get a DAS as I don't think it is really necessary for us. Should I let her bring the devices in or is this a slippery slope I should avoid? We have two months before our trip and I'd like to prepare DD10 as much as possible. She doesn't react well to surprises or changes in routine if we don't discuss them beforehand. Any advice from you, especially if you've been in my place, would be really helpful. Thank you!