Christine
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 31, 1999
I think this does happen quite often. I see it a lot in my own family. It is human nature to be that way; however, I it is all in how it is handled.
My aunt has two daughters and each of them have children. Her younger daughter and her children lived with them for awhile while the daughter was divorcing. The grandparents formed a bond with those children that they do not have with the other. But, I will say that my aunt goes out of her way to treat ALL her grandchildren equally. She does a great job of it. But, it is really hard not to notice that she is closer to one set of grandkids than the other. I don't fault her for it. How could it not happen. But, she never does anything to make the other kids feel "less" or "unwanted." But her older daughter gets an attitude about it which kind of ticks me off.
So, I do see the other side of it, but if they are treating the other children badly, then that's just not right.
My aunt has two daughters and each of them have children. Her younger daughter and her children lived with them for awhile while the daughter was divorcing. The grandparents formed a bond with those children that they do not have with the other. But, I will say that my aunt goes out of her way to treat ALL her grandchildren equally. She does a great job of it. But, it is really hard not to notice that she is closer to one set of grandkids than the other. I don't fault her for it. How could it not happen. But, she never does anything to make the other kids feel "less" or "unwanted." But her older daughter gets an attitude about it which kind of ticks me off.
So, I do see the other side of it, but if they are treating the other children badly, then that's just not right.