Reading all this talk about homework, enrichment classes, reading logs, grade point averages, etc... for 8 year olds
has my head spinning. I have 4 girls, the oldest is 6 and in the first grade so I admit I have no experience here but if my daughter has to do all that I've read on this post (and she'll do it herself) I'll be ecstatic if she gets a C. Not only that, it would be a C that she earned without any help from me.
I view my job is to keep her from watching TV or other activities until she's finished her homework. If it's bedtime and her homework isn't done, my job is to get her to bed.
In my opinion, homework is for the kids. I never asked my parents to help me with homework (never really had homework until 5th grade); except to drive me to the store to get supplies for a project, or operate the power tools to build a science experiment I selected.
None of this has anything to do with OP other than to say I have no intention of keeping up with a reading log or some of the other things I've read here tonight. I also have no intention of monitoring my daughter's grades in elementary school, high school, or college; just like I have no intention of guarding her piggy bank at this age or balancing her check-book later in life.
Does that make me a bad parent? Maybe. But something about parents needing to help with homework doesn't sit well with me. If my child can't do the work, she didn't pay attention that day/week and should get a grade that reflects her progress so her teacher can know what she needs to work on.
If that's tough love, we've gotten really soft.
P.S. None of this is to say we're not involved in our daughters' education. My wife is a stay at home mom so she's able to volunteer at the school when they need help. I take my daughter to school most mornings and pick here up from school on Fridays. I take off from work a couple times a month to serve in the cafeteria or read to my daughter's class. My wife and I take turns attending soccer games and practice, and I lead my oldest daughter's Indian Princesses Tribe. I just draw a hard line at homework.