malonefamily
Vlogging magical family adventures in Central FL
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- Jul 27, 2005
I found Grumpy on the Disney Wonder's Alaskan sailing from June 7th, and I'm afraid it wasn't with Snow White. My family was watching DisneyNature African Cats in the Buena Vista theater waiting to pull into Ketchikan (it was nearly my 3 year old's nap time) while holding and barely rocking him to sleep. Just as he was dozing off there was a BIG (hard as she could manage I would guess) kick against the back of the seat. I ignored it assuming she had fallen or something, but a moment later she began screaming at me for moving. Yikes.
It was so bizarre. When she yelled I turned and said, "I'm just rocking the baby to sleep, and didn't intend to bother you." She said it "hurt her knees" (now I'm about 6 feet tall and my knees didn't touch the seat in front of me, so I don't know what her story was - in a million years I never would have guessed the tiny movement we made would bother anyone - it was surely better than a fussy preschooler!). Then I finally realized that she'd just kicked us, and very, very hard (such an odd thing it took me a while to realize that's what had happened). So I said, "Did you kick us on purpose then?" And she said "Yes." Everyone in the central part of the theater just sort of turned in shock to look at her. I said simply, "Wow" and turned around and tried to hold very still for the last 40 minutes of the show, with a now wide awake and fussy 3 year old I probably should have just left.
After the movie was over I told her crossly that if she kicked me or one of my children again she could explain it to Disney security, and she took off. Here's the question for more experienced cruisers: How should I have dealt with this? Should I have called security at the time? Should I have ignored it? Moved to another seat mid-show in a crowded theater? If I had snapped an iPhone picture of her and taken it to security would they have acted on it?
I resisted the urge to complain to anyone at Guest Services (I've heard complaints about other passengers are their most common headache, and what can they really do about that?). I just feel like I didn't handle it in the best possible way. We had a great time anyway, but I won't deny that it took a few hours to shake off that unpleasant experience.
It was so bizarre. When she yelled I turned and said, "I'm just rocking the baby to sleep, and didn't intend to bother you." She said it "hurt her knees" (now I'm about 6 feet tall and my knees didn't touch the seat in front of me, so I don't know what her story was - in a million years I never would have guessed the tiny movement we made would bother anyone - it was surely better than a fussy preschooler!). Then I finally realized that she'd just kicked us, and very, very hard (such an odd thing it took me a while to realize that's what had happened). So I said, "Did you kick us on purpose then?" And she said "Yes." Everyone in the central part of the theater just sort of turned in shock to look at her. I said simply, "Wow" and turned around and tried to hold very still for the last 40 minutes of the show, with a now wide awake and fussy 3 year old I probably should have just left.
After the movie was over I told her crossly that if she kicked me or one of my children again she could explain it to Disney security, and she took off. Here's the question for more experienced cruisers: How should I have dealt with this? Should I have called security at the time? Should I have ignored it? Moved to another seat mid-show in a crowded theater? If I had snapped an iPhone picture of her and taken it to security would they have acted on it?
I resisted the urge to complain to anyone at Guest Services (I've heard complaints about other passengers are their most common headache, and what can they really do about that?). I just feel like I didn't handle it in the best possible way. We had a great time anyway, but I won't deny that it took a few hours to shake off that unpleasant experience.