Mugglemama
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jul 14, 2008
Ugh school excuses! I think if I had to fill out a form on educational value I would pull out my hair!
I have always pulled my kids out and will continue to. Family time is very important and lacking in todays society. School starts at 7:30 am here, gets put at 2:10 add homework and sports and I never see my kids except to yell at them to clean their rooms. For years and years and years this is it.
10 years ago we started going to DL regularly several times a year, pulling the kids out of school. I was diagnosed with cancer and too bad if the school wanted a stupid doctors note everytime, I was going to spend time with my kids. It was the best thing we ever did as far as spending time as a family. Last year DH died of cancer, he was just 39. DD13 watched him suffer for 6 months.
So this year I have pulled DD13 out several times. DS23 lives in San Diego and is in the Navy, these are the only times we get to see him too.
So I tell the school that based on all of this garbage that has gone on in the last years, I am and will take DD13 out.
I tell them we are going to Disneyland and spending family time, can I please have her homework. If they don't like it and want to prosecute me, throw me in the pokey then I will take her out and homeschool her, and they won't get a $ from her anymore. I am the parent, I don't need the school acting like they are in control of my kids; and I sure as heck don't need the stress.
Can you tell I have had some issues with the school? Lol
Even with taking her out several times a year, she is in all Honors classes and maintains her grades. So I don't feel bad. But I would still take her out if she was getting bad grades, just get her a tutor! Lol
anyway best of luck to all you school rebels out there!
I think we each have to do what is best for our family and situation.
my sincerest condolences to your family!
you're right....family time is most important. none of us know how long we have here, and memories of time spent together at disneyland as a family are going to far outweigh memories of just another day sitting in class.
that's why disneyland is so special to my family....it's where many of our best memories as a family have been made. we get to recapture it every time we're there. (my kids tell me, "i want my house in heaven to be at disneyland!")
again, i'm so sorry for your family's loss.