shaylahc1
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- May 26, 2006
I have 4 kids. They are 9, 7, 5 & almost 2. I found the hardest was going from 2 to 3. Then I felt like I was juggling responsibilities. When your children outnumber you, things can get scary I think a lot of it depends on the temperament of the children, too. My 3rd DD had reflux and rarely slept, and my 2nd child has special needs. Trying to juggle all the therapy appointments, medical testing, and sleep deprivation was not fun. I didn't find adding a 4th to be that much harder, but it does seem like the amount of work (and the expense of raising them) has gone up significantly.
Now that the kids are older the hardest part is trying to accomodate everyone. My older kids are at the age where they want to go places and do things, and my DS is little and sometimes the activities aren't always appropriate for his age. DH and I do a lot of splitting up---he keeps 1 kid while I take 3 somewhere, or I take 1 while he takes 3, etc. It is definitely all about the juggling when you have so many kids!
The other thing about having 4 is that you can no longer rent just 1 standard hotel room, or drive a standard car. We have to get 2 hotel rooms or a suite when we travel, and it is always a van or SUV for us now.
Just some food for thought! I don't know a single parent who regrets having any of their children no matter how many there are If you decide to adopt all 4, I am sure you will do great!
Now that the kids are older the hardest part is trying to accomodate everyone. My older kids are at the age where they want to go places and do things, and my DS is little and sometimes the activities aren't always appropriate for his age. DH and I do a lot of splitting up---he keeps 1 kid while I take 3 somewhere, or I take 1 while he takes 3, etc. It is definitely all about the juggling when you have so many kids!
The other thing about having 4 is that you can no longer rent just 1 standard hotel room, or drive a standard car. We have to get 2 hotel rooms or a suite when we travel, and it is always a van or SUV for us now.
Just some food for thought! I don't know a single parent who regrets having any of their children no matter how many there are If you decide to adopt all 4, I am sure you will do great!