What is a fish extender and how do I get one? We are going as a family on our 1st
DCL 2/12. Thank you.
Congratulations on your upcoming DCL cruise!
Mom and I have lots of fun participating in fish exchanges. This will be my husband's first time and he's already getting a bit overboard. He's helping decorate the door and it should be a doozie!
It's not a mandatory experience but if you want to add a little extra magic to your trip, participating in an exchange is a fun way to do it.
First the extender itself:
- You DO NOT have to have anything extravagant for a fish extender. Mom and I make ours but then we sew (well she sews, I try). If you don't sew, you can be creative and use bags. I even saw a very smart person take one of those small shoe trees and cut it down to have just enough pockets for each member of the family. They put each member's name on a pocket and some Mickey ears drawn on. You can purchase pre-made ones on eBay but IMHO, it's just not necessary.
Here's a
link to pictures of people's extenders here on the DISboards.
- From our experience, a deep pocket(s)/bag(s) is better than a wide one. You don't want it too narrow but shallow extenders are a big complicated to get certain gifts into. In our first exchange, the kids of one of the participants made a decorated picture frame for each room. While delivering our goodies, I noticed that for some rooms they had to prop the frame against the door. Again, the extender doesn't need to be HUGE just reasonable. And then, if several gifts are delivered at the same time, there may be no choice but to prop them against the door.
What to give:
- Let your imagination run wild!
- If you're crafty, making something is a fun activity. It doesn't need to be over the top, just something you'd want to receive yourself. On our first exchange, our host hand crocheted each participating room 2 Wave phone holders. I still have mine! Mom made Disney Dream candy wrappers to go over Hershey bars one time. As a chef, I've been inspired to make cookbooks for each exchange. On mom's last cruise, she and her friend received Post-It notes that had a custom made cover on it! If you're children are old enough, let them participate by making something they can contribute to the fun.
Here's a
link to a discussion of handmade FE gifts you might enjoy.
- If you're purchasing, same rule applies. It doesn't need to be over the top, just something you'd want to receive yourself. Consider going to your local dollar store for useful items (small containers of hand sanitizer for example) or something that can be modified. Party stores are great for little extra trinkets that can be included in your gift (is using). Postcards from where you live. Small non-perishable food items (honey, jams, jellies, nuts, etc...) that are locally made.
- Don't spend a ton of money; this is just a fun experience you're sharing with other Disney and
Disney cruise fans (you will be hooked).
How much to give:
- This is a tricky one. Everyone has a different idea of how they like to handle this. Some people do one special item (the Wave phone holders) while others give an assortment of inexpensive gifts and candy.
- Because we make the majority of our gifts, Mom and I typically give about 5 items to one room and a few separate items if there are children in the room. That way the kids have their own gifts to enjoy. The first year, each person in the room got their own bag of goodies, the adults in the room we split the gifts among and the kids got their very own. I'm not sure how mom did it last September. Once I get everything laid out for our December cruise, I'll decide how we'll distribute but I suspect we'll have a single bag for adults in a room and again the kids will get their own.
- How you are getting to the ship will play a huge part in what you're giving. Mom and I didn't take this into consideration on our first exchange. We flew to Florida and were only taking carry-on. We had to use our beach bags as our purses in order to carry all of the stuff we brought for the exchange! It was nuts! This time we're driving down so it's not an issue. Some people have mailed FE gifts to friends in Florida, directly to the ship, or to a postal pick up place. If you're flying to Florida consider FE items that pack easily, are small, or if you'll have access to a car in Florida, picked up when you get there (eg. candy).
What to expect in return:
- That's the fun of it, you just don't know! On our first exchange, it was small (maybe 8 rooms) and it ranged from amazing items to one person who simple gave some cheap leftovers just so they could participate. It happens, we've done art exchanged were this happens. You take the good with the bad. On mom's last exchange though, she was truly blown away. People just went all out in that group. It's like Christmas I guess. You get presents that you've always wanted and then that gift or two from distant relatives that you wonder what in the heck they were thinking!
Good luck and have fun!