I would find a new dentist. "The lump is still hard and warm to the touch" and he is not seeing her to check it? The receptionist misspoke? red flags!
I admit. Earlier I was very much second-guessing the dentist. However, he's been diligent about either calling us himself (I spoke w/ him on Monday) or having either his hygienist or receptionist call to check on her. I can also understand how the receptionist could have accidently given me incorrect information (based on her own experience/knowledge & not having enough experience/knowledge of what is going on w/ DD), & I appreciate her calling me to apologize.
I have too much personal experience with root canals. Your daughter is not experiencing a normal recovery. Tooth pain can be excruciating. The tooth may need to be reopened to relieve the pressure and retreated. If infection develops and persists after retreatment..an apicoextomy may be necessary.
She was in a great deal of pain over the weekend. Her pain has lessened dramatically since then. She has not taken any pain meds at all so far today. And, during this, she was only taking OTC meds such as Advil & Tylenol, & it was working.
I do agree, though, that if she doesn't continue to see improvement, further action will be needed, & we will seek it.
OP, I agree with both of these posters. I think you've gotten a lot of good advice about being pro-active, earlier and now. I don't think phone consults are nearly as helpful as a health care professional actually looking at the area of what sounds like an on going infection and or other problem. The part above that I boldened would worry me. Wishing your dd well.
OP, I just don't understand your mindset here. Are you not taking your daughter to the doctor or back to the dentist because you want to save money? Isn't her well-being worth any amount you'd have to pay? I think you are risking spending a lot more money down the line by not being more proactive now. And I just hope your DD isn't going to be risking more healthwise too.
Of course, her well-being is worth any amount of money! I don't even know why you would ask that! We also have good health & dental insurance, so, no, I'm not worried about the money.
I trust our pediatrician. It is a practice, & the doctors there & the practice are very highly respected in our community. Our children have been going there since birth. They know our children. They know my daughter. As I talked w/ the nurse, she had my daughter's file in front of her. At this point, the doctor does not feel she needs to be seen. Within 24-48 hours, if we don't continue to see improvement, she will need to be seen. I trust that assessment.
Additionally, I know my DD, & she is doing better. She's not lethargic. She's talking & laughing. She swam last night & was engaged w/ her friends. She's eating. She's reading (she loves to read), & she's back to writing (she also loves writing).
We are staying in contact w/ the dentist, & now, as well, her pediatrician.
I'm glad your daughter is feeling better. Maybe the two antibiotics finally kicked in.
The reason myself and the other nurses here were so concerned is likely because of what we know about septicemia, or infection in the blood. When you have a massive infection like that, it can spread to the blood. When it's in the blood, it travels around the body. That's what can make people appear really sick, i.e. lethargic, fatiqued, unable to eat, sleepy, etc., basically some of the descriptions you used.
But there is also something else, called bacterial endocarditis, that can happen when bacteria is in the blood, often from a dental procedure. It more often happens when a person has underlying disease of the cardiac structures, but it can happen to people with normal structures, too - I see it a fair amount in my line of work. Bacterial endocarditis is kind of a nightmare to deal with because it makes a person very sick and requires weeks of IV antibiotics and sometimes open heart surgery to repair damaged heart valves. Would being on an oral antibiotic or two prevent this? Well, that is the question. I don't know. Nobody would really know for sure. But what likely would have happened in an ER setting is that they would have given IV antibiotics anyway, as a preventative measure. To make sure, or at least give the best shot, of
preventing something like endocarditis. (Note, I am not saying I think she
has endocarditis, I am saying she could be
at risk for it in this situation.) I didn't say this the other night cause I didn't want to freak you out or have others say it's an over-reaction, etc. I'm saying it now because it could still be an issue and so others here can learn about it.
http://patient.info/health/infective-endocarditis-leaflet
I understand, & thank you. I'm aware of those type of infections. My mother has MVP & takes antibiotics before she has any dental work. When this first started (after the root canal), I was very worried about this kind of thing because I've always heard (& read) about how easy it is for a mouth/dental infection to travel to the heart - which is one reason we were back at the dentist on Friday, &, had we not started to see improvement, we would have been either at our doctor's office or at the ER. But, just when I was ready to take her & thinking "this is not right," she started improving a little. I'm a worrier, so, many times, I have to talk myself out of these worst-case scenarios because that's immediately where my mind goes. And then lots of times I don't know... should I be worried about this, or am I just worrying because that's what I do?
Again, (1) I have very limited experience w/ dental procedures & (2) I think I'm just used to antibiotics working a lot more quickly & was not prepared for this.
And I do appreciate everyone's advice & thoughts!