I don't drink pop (maybe a glass every few months). I don't eat meat. I don't eat dairy. I very rarely eat anything fried. I also don't excerise unless you count cleaning and walking the dog, and I have a job that keeps me on my feet all day.
I drink coffee (with a little sugar). I eat LOTS of fruits and veggies. I eat carbs, mostly whole grains, but I do eat some refined and I do eat potatoes once a week or so. I also eat sugar, not a lot but I do bake. I eat beans, seeds and nuts. I do eat some processed foods (usually ones with healthy ingredients and a short indredient list but not always. I eat soy products.
I rarely eat out and do all my own cooking. I don't count carbs, calories, fat ect. I eat whenever I am hungry. I am never tired unless I slept less then 6 hours. I don't have a "wheat belly". I have never struggled with my weight and technically could stand to gain 5-10lb. We keep our house stocked with tons of fresh fruits and veggies and keep them washed, cut up and easily accessible for quick snacking.