I understand...kind of. My husband is treated like crap at his job and he has been there 21 years(and only makes 48k a year)! I keep telling him to work on his resume and look for a new job but he is afraid to since he's been there so long. Everyone around him makes more than him, even though he has more knowledge and can do all of their jobs but they do not know how to do his. The boss tells him how important he is to the company but they don't act like he is. The past 3 years have been getting worse and worse every year. Especially since our health insurance keeps going up and the benefits keep decreasing and they will only give him a 2% cost of living raise to him which doesn't even cover the insurance increase
We almost qualify for food stamps. I jokingly told him to ask for a rate decrease so we can qualify, as we are barely getting by. He's afraid of changing jobs, but is so stressed out now that it's very hard on our family.