You should do the Cape May character breakfast. I suggest springing for a taxi from AKL to the Beach Club, for the breakfast. WAY easier and faster for you than Disney's busses (you'd have to get the Character Breakfast bus and you may get stuck making several stops -- if you just have to ride the bus rather than spend $15 on a cab, make sure you talk to the concierge desk in the AKL lobby about your needs the night before).
I've heard excellent things about Cape May's brekkie, it's on my short list of places to try that I haven't been to, yet.
And re. your question further up the page, yes, I've stayed at AKL, and my only tip is, relax and enjoy! I don't think there's a need to get wound up about which savannah or "trail" you're on, which floor, etc. Your first trip, you are guaranteed to be happy, it's such a unique place.
I will say, don't skip the hot tub, and plan at least half a day to just be at your resort.