Nancyg56
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 17, 2005
Yes, again sorry for coming off as hateful or overly critical.
I guess it just brings out a bit of fire in me whenever someone posts about how they only like to spend a little bit of time in the parks each day when the tickets are so expensive that many cannot afford to even purchase one day at the park for the entire family. Now if the poster of a "sleep-in/leave early" post prefaced that with they have an AP and they go several weeks a year or they live in Orlando then that is a different story. But I guess I look at it from the perspective of a middle class family week long vacation standpoint if the poster does not preface their comments otherwise.
I know that it's hard to look at a post and take your own circumstances out of the picture. For my family, once I know the total of each component of the trip, I stop looking at individual segments and just take the whole thing as a whole. One trip, our very first back since my own were kids, our first day in the MK would have been classified as a total waste by many. My DGD went onto ONE attraction...the Carousel. We had the BEST DAY EVER!!!! That one day, 10 years later, is still my favorite memory.
We are those people who save all year for a WDW trip, eat in when we may want to eat out, and do not have new cars or furniture. When we go to Disney we but the package that seems like the one that works for us, but once we arrive, if we leave a park after a few hours, and never make it back, I refuse to get all worked up, and that is because I stopped looking at the separate tix cost once DH and I agreed the cost of the trip was within our budget. The resort is a major of portion of our stay, as is dining. For many, a resort is just the place they park their clothes, sleep and shower. And a restaurant is a refueling station. Their food budgets and resort choices will be different from mine. Others can book CL every trip and may or may not stop in more than a few times a week. If I scrape up enough extra to book that level of stay, I know that even more time will be spent at my resort. I think that if we want to be productive in terms of assisting folks in the planning stages of their trips, we need to back away from personalizing anyone's choice because we then tend to seem negative, and any feedback offered tends to be ignored.