What could have been a tough decision for us turned out to be easy.
Our first morning there was a Wednesday, so there was no EE. In fact, the park didn't open until 10:00am, so we went to Goofy's Kitchen for breakfast first.
The hard part would have been trying to decide if we walk to the main entrance and enter
Disneyland on our very first day the
traditional way, or do we hop the monorail for speed and convenience?
Since there was no EE, we walked to the main entrance on our first day and took in the beautiful sights and sounds of Disneyland's main entrance.
However, on our following days we hopped that monorail for speed and convenience!!!
There was never a line for the monorail (which I'm sure will NOT be the case in July
).
My DH would take my 9 y/o to Tomorrowland and hit all of those 'older kid rides', while my mother and I took my 3 y/o on all of the 'younger kid rides' in Fantasyland.
We met in different places on different days. At whatever time they let the public in, we would meet in front of the ropes for Toon Town, or Adventureland, or Frontierland---depending on which other lands and rides we wanted to see and do next.
EE was a fabulous treat!
Sometimes we just stayed on the carousel over and over again.
Dumbo was another one of the 'repeat rides' on EE mornings.
With a 4 and 6 y/o I think you will be able to take full advantage of EE days...hit the park early and then head back to the room around lunchtime for a little meal and rest.