But, the fact of the matter is that if you arrive early or leave late, your stay has not actually begun or has already ended. Your meal credits mirror the time you have for your booking.
When you check-in, you are given a sheet which clearly indicates your meal credits. Regardless of what someone "expects", they have that piece of paper, and additionally with each purchase, the remaining allocation is provided on each receipt. Many cashiers even point it out when you get the counter service and snacks. If someone does not look at what they have remaining, and just assumes they can keep using it while they are there, well, the rude awakening is what they get.
Bottom line, ignorance is not a valid excuse. Sorry to be blunt, but that's what we're talking about here.
I think we are agreeing here for the most part. Of course ignorance is not a valid excuse. The situation I described did not happen to US. It was someone else.
You have a FRI through MON stay, 3 nights-4 days. You and I know we will have 3 credits each for table service, counter service, snack. You arrive on FRI morning. You check in at your resort. Whether you get your room or not your credits are activated, or am I incorrect on this. Maybe, on FRI, you use a counter credit for lunch and table for dinner then do the same SAT and SUN. Come MON you're set to fly out late afternoon. How many credits left?? If you plan on hanging around Disney for the day, maybe do a park or visit other resorts, you will have a meal or two on MON to plan for. You have no more
DDP credits so, for someone who is trying to stay on a budget, this needs to be accounted for. And it CAN have an impact on your budget.
The family I observed, for whatever reason, apparently thought they had credits based upon the number of DAYS of their stay, and they tried to argue that point with the cashier. She kept telling them that they must have used all of their credits before that day so they stood there, holding up the line, talking about where they ate beginning on their arrival day, which happened to be somewhere in MK for lunch using a counter service credit then dinner at Whispering Canyon using a table credit. I guess they repeated this pattern each day until they were left with no credits on their departure day.
All I'm getting at is that is incorrect to talk about DDP on a PER DAY basis, and I see it discussed that way often here. Most of us know how many credits we will have, regardless of how/when we use them. But if someone who is not as familiar with DDP as us keeps seeing PER DAY in discussions they may well get the wrong idea. If you arrive late on arrival day and leave early on departure day, yes, you may even have trouble using all of your credits. But if, as described above, you have to pay for a meal, even counter service, it can "blow" your budget.
I don't get the impression that we are the only ones who vacation at Disney the way I have described. I think a lot of folks hit the parks on arrival and departure days and a meal or two will need to be accounted for. We don't budget our trips, it is what it is for us. But I think many are really trying to budget theirs and a meal for a family of four can be quite expensive.
Sorry, I've rambled enough.....