sha_lyn
If we couldn't laugh we'd all go insane
- Joined
- Jan 14, 2000
Regardless of his disorder" is an oxymoron. His behaviors could be a product
OF his disorder. Do you tell someone with cancer to feel better and get over it? Just because his disorder is most likey mental does not give him ANY more control over it. Thus, his consequence should be something appropriate for him and him alone.
I do agree with you that some kids get away with things because their parents expect way too little of them and say, "Johnny has such and such", but I think we really have to be careful to not lump every child into this pile.
ITA.... I never said he should be rewarded for his behavior, but I believe following such suggestions as waking him up before dawn and forcing him to clean house all day will do nothing but harm/worsen the situation.