A lot have stated that the parent fills out the contact sheet, so of course the numbers are correct. Well, most times the packets are picked up and dropped off by the student. At least in this district. The parent may never actually see the contact sheet and anyone can fill it out. Not saying that is the case, but sometimes parents don't fill out all the paper work. Either by their own doing, or by kids not wanting their parents contacted.
So then--in the event of an emergency, they are pretty screwed aren't they?
The time to verify this information is at registration or the first week of school. Not when there is a problem--and accusing the student of falsifying information if the school had not taken the time to follow up and validate the information.
It really seems that this board is too quick and easy at saying kids cannot be trusted.
My kids are young--but are we raising a society of liars and cheaters where something as simple as a contact sheet cannot be trusted?
Now--I went to 3 high schools, so my mother had to drag her butt into the school 3 times and fill out my information and get me registered.
Perhaps schools that have their students stay all four years do not have the luxury of having a parent physically come in.
But the hyperbole of schools having to deal with liars on a daily basis and using that as justification for the principals actions is simply stamping approval of bullying simply b/c the principal is in power.
If the school has a problem with lying on contact forms, then it is probably time they change the manner in which they collect the information versus accusing a student who is telling the truth of lying.
If that happened in the work place, it could be a lawsuit waiting to happen (depending on the states employment laws and/or union status).
Just b/c it is a school, doesn't entitle any educator or administrator to jump to those conclusions.
Sometimes, I feel we give school officials and teachers much more leeway than they deserve.
On a bad day, when I followed school administrator instructions, I ended up tardy to class. I was essentially called a liar and accused of cutting class when I followed clear instructions on what to do for school make up photos.
I do not know what caused my teacher to accuse me, but I lost all respect for her. She was my pre-algebra teacher (loved math!), she was my math coach--and she chewed me up and spit me out b/c she didn't listen to announcements that morning.
It made me feel better when several classmates felt bad for me and let me know that they heard the same announcement depsite being in different homerooms at the time of the announcement.
Curiously-the following year, she was equally po'd at me when beyond MY control, my mother moved and I had to switch schools. At my new school, my math team kicked her math team's butt.
Perhaps she held me to a higher standard--I don't know, but the woman had a serious complex and possibily some anger issues as well.
Unfortunately, not all students get to move away and then "get even" in a healthy manner with an educator who did them wrong. But I have to say that it was nice to beat her math team.