We just returned from 8 wonderful days at the World. We told ourselves that we wanted to make this a vacation to remember for us and we were not going to worry about money. We are by no means wealthy. This was our first true vacation in 7 years.
We have not (and will not) added up the entire trip for a "total cost." We booked each piece knowing what we could (or were willing to) afford and just went with it. We made choices and were selective about certain things to do or not do (i.e. private tours, etc...), but held true to our promise to each other to have a trip we will enjoy and not over-worry about the money once we agreed to the trip.
Is one resort over another going to make or break your economic situation? If so... maybe you should not take the trip. (And by "you" I do not mean anyone in specific.) Is one ADR over another going to cause economic crisis for your family? If so, perhaps it's not the right time for a vacation. We waited for years to take this trip, watching others go (including those that go every year), waiting until we knew we could do it without worrying about every cent. Little did we know what the economy would do literally while we were gone.
We were there while the stock market was going insane and everything was changing daily. We agreed not to read about anything money-related as we couldn't change it, we had made vacation decisions, and we vowed to just enjoy. And we did.... and we are okay, with amazing memories. Now it's back to work.
I guess our thoughts are - if you are going to do anything in life, enjoy it. If you can't (or shouldn't afford it), know well enough not to do it - it's just not worth it.
Note to the PP: You mentioned that you are at the YC and might "downgrade to AKL." We did a split stay between AKL and YC. YC was gorgeous, classy, and the lagoon view was absolutely breath-taking. The AKL was simply special. How often can you look out your bedroom window and see a zebra? We left AKL mid-stay wanting to stay longer. And all DH kept saying while at YC was, "And to think that AKL is less expensive." I would STRONGLY consider staying at AKL if you are interested (regardless of money or not). It is a very special place with an amazing feel, excellent staff, and wonderful offerings.
- Dreams