RabbitFood
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Jun 23, 2008
I think it takes a certain level of maturity (and perhaps a bit of wisdom, too) to understand that something that works for ME does not make it the be-all and end-all for everyone else.
I LOVED my university experience. I LOVED living on campus. I would LOVE my children to have that same great experience, but I know that they are their own people who will quite possibly have very different (not wrong, just different) experiences than I did. Including the fact that they may not get jobs right out of college. (Heck, I'm assuming they'll graduate college. It's the goal, but the world will not end if that does not happen.) They do know they are ALWAYS welcome back in my home if their career plans do not pan out, much like my parents said their home would always be my home.
I cannot imagine telling my kids they no longer had a home when they were of a certain age. Life doesn't always work the way we think it should. And that's okay, because I expect the unexpected and will just roll with it. To me, there's no other option.
I LOVED my university experience. I LOVED living on campus. I would LOVE my children to have that same great experience, but I know that they are their own people who will quite possibly have very different (not wrong, just different) experiences than I did. Including the fact that they may not get jobs right out of college. (Heck, I'm assuming they'll graduate college. It's the goal, but the world will not end if that does not happen.) They do know they are ALWAYS welcome back in my home if their career plans do not pan out, much like my parents said their home would always be my home.
I cannot imagine telling my kids they no longer had a home when they were of a certain age. Life doesn't always work the way we think it should. And that's okay, because I expect the unexpected and will just roll with it. To me, there's no other option.