Relax at WDW.....Never!
In all seriousness, we normally take 2, sometimes 3, vacations a year with one being a week at some east coast beach. That's when we relax. I am usually by the pool of our rental house drinking beer or Wild Turkey trying to forget the stress of a normally fast paced life filled with lots of kids activities
. However, we only go to WDW every 2 or 3 years. Our last trip was December 2011 and we will more than likely not go back until some time in 2014.
When we go to the World, I like to push the family to get as much in as possible. When we spend over $10K for a week long stay at the GF, I feel as though I need to get my "money's worth".
My guess is the people who really do relax when at WDW go way more often than we do or stay more days when they go. If I went every year or 2 I could relax a little more knowing I was going to be back soon. If we were there for 14 or 21 days I would definitely be able to find the time to relax.
Our last trip was 9 days/8 nights with 2 of the days being arrival day (later) and departure day (noonish) so we really only had 7 days. We typically hit MK 2 days, Epcot 2 Days, AK 1 day, DHS 1 day, and DTD 1 day. That's 7 there. No extra days to "relax". I guess the DTD day can be somewhat relaxing. Other than that, we don't take a day to hit the pool or tour the resorts. While we do take time out from the park to spin down midday if it is hot, we do not set aside a specific day for the pool.
AND.....my wife and kids hate it when I am up at 7:00 telling them to wake up so we can get to a park. I typically get up at 5:00am for work to miss traffic so 7:00 is sleeping in for me
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In the end, no matter your touring strategy, as long as you can talk about your vacation for years to come and make great memories it was worth it. My oldest daughter and I still laugh about the time we were leaving MK and she was holding my hand and I directed her straight into one of the trash cans in the tunnels under the train station - and that was 6 years ago.