Todd&Copper
<font color=darkorchid>Sweet Chicken, that is one
- Joined
- Mar 10, 2006
This is not meant as a slam, but please do not equate "smart and capable" as a reason for not choosing to be a SAHM. I have a doctorate degree and was the consummate career woman. Luckily my husband and I were in the financial position to allow me to become a SAHM when we had our first child. I have never regretted the decision and have met many other SAHMs through school and community activities that were extremely accomplished before and after making the same choice I did.
Everyone needs to make the choice that is best for them, but being "smart and capable" does not exclude one from being a very happy and content SAHM.
Wel, please do not consider this a slam, but being a SAHM would not be a fun, fulfilling existence for me. I loathe the drudgery of housework and would rather work than stay at home and get fat and lazy. Because I would fall into a deep depression if stuck at home with rugrats and laundry and playdates. Sorry, but not everyone wants to be a SAHM, despite what the SAHMs think.