We're having dd5's party tomorrow and the guest list was really hard... We've got 18 kids coming and we had to pick a venue to accommodate this. The thing is, the list could have been longer, but we had to cut it off somewhere.
She's invited about half of her class (invites sent in U.S. mail and she was instructed not to talk about the party at school)---but not everyone (not even all the girls). She picked the ones she spends the most time with. Now one of child has an older sibling in the same class (multiage). So we invited both of them since they are both in her class.
Then their are "neighborhood" friends and for these, we also invited the older sibling since they all play together......
Then there are the "after-school care" friends....
I felt bad "cutting" the list---but the venue had its limited (and so does my budget).
Also, think about whether or not you have invited the birthday child to your child's parties. If so, I guess I might be a little offended (but still, there are no laws that require a quid quo pro invite).
Also, sometimes we reciprocate invites with a different party (not a birthday party) at a different time during the year (like a kid's holiday party).
She's invited about half of her class (invites sent in U.S. mail and she was instructed not to talk about the party at school)---but not everyone (not even all the girls). She picked the ones she spends the most time with. Now one of child has an older sibling in the same class (multiage). So we invited both of them since they are both in her class.
Then their are "neighborhood" friends and for these, we also invited the older sibling since they all play together......
Then there are the "after-school care" friends....
I felt bad "cutting" the list---but the venue had its limited (and so does my budget).
Also, think about whether or not you have invited the birthday child to your child's parties. If so, I guess I might be a little offended (but still, there are no laws that require a quid quo pro invite).
Also, sometimes we reciprocate invites with a different party (not a birthday party) at a different time during the year (like a kid's holiday party).