bumbershoot
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- Mar 5, 2007
My thought is this. Maybe she wanted to have her girls looked at.
True true. I know when I wore low cut shirts it was highly on purpose! And as an adult, they are MY goods to show off, and MINE to think of as goods if I choose.
And there's a huge difference between a 15 year old couple with that sort of comment, vs adults saying it.
19 really? I get that you made a comment, but really it is her business, unless the girls were totally hanging out. WE are just way too relaxed in our house to let this be a problem. However without hearing his tone, there is no way that I could say he was being disrespectful. I don't find it at all disrespectful to women in general, but if the tone was nasty then I could see it being disrespectful to you and your comment.
Tone of voice and her reaction make a big difference, now that we know they are adults.
At nineteen, I would have told him off myself if I felt that I was disrespected.
Exactly.